Female sex... Clinical sexologists and sexual scientists define orgasm as an experience that affects the entire body involving pleasurable waves of energy, preceded by engorgement with blood of the genitals and nipples, and often accompanied by involuntary muscular contractions, changes in breathing, heart rate, blood pressure, skin color, as well as the release of chemicals in the brain causing temporarily altered states of consciousness. Many women find that genital arousal is their favorite way to achieve orgasm. For some women, arousal results most intensely from direct stimulation of the clitoris. For others, the clitoris may be too sensitive to be touched directly and stimulation of the surrounding vulval structures may be preferred. For some women, the clitoris retracts and almost disappears as it becomes engorged with excitement. Female sex Either way, try rocking back and forth instead of thrusting; it provides more clitoral stimulation and helps him last longer. SEATED WOMAN ON TOP For this position, a chair is a sexy substitute for the bed. Use one with a padded seat and have your partner sit upright. Straddling him, place your feet firmly on the floor and guide his hands to hold your buttocks. LEGS-UP MISSIONARY STYLE To put the hmmmm back into the missionary position, try these variations. Female sex There are almost no cases of any female homosexuals, for instance, even claiming to have caught AIDS this way. In case you're wondering what the hell I'm talking about, a "dental dam" is simply a condom cut in half lengthwise and used to keep fluids from passing between mouth and vulva. And it's being advocated primarily by people who are simply jealous that they're missing out on a great chance to be a "victim" in the issue of sexually transmitted diseases. Interesting note -- A little noise on your part usually doesn't hurt, and sometimes it helps. Some women are very hung up on cunnilingus, determined to believe that, no matter how much you say otherwise (and she claims to believe you), it may be at least a little unpleasant for you.

Female sex It's true -- apply it to her most intimate parts before or during lovemaking, and prepare for unbelievably intense excitement and climaxes beyond all previous boundaries. Now you hold the key to her more exciting and creative sex life: Turn her on RIGHT AWAY! Delight her with deeper, more intense sensations than ever before! Touch her in tantalizing ways she's NEVER before experienced! Bring her to EXPLOSIVE ORGASMS! Female sex "But the cervix is extremely sensitive in some women and can provide intense sexual pleasure." On the other hand, many doctors in Europe perform supercervical hysterectomies, which leave the organ intact. "Unless there is a risk of cancer in the patient, for obvious reasons, it's best to request the latter," notes Whipple. * Sex-diminishing medications Low libido is the unspoken side effect of many commonly prescribed drugs, such as antidepressants (most notably, selective serotonin-reuptake inhibitors like Prozac, Zoloft and Paxil), drugs used to control high blood pressure (Inderal) and antianxiety drugs (Xanax). "Even over-the-counter and prescription antihistamines can reduce sexual desire," says Whipple. "They dry your sinuses and your vaginal secretions." Once you've ruled out or dealt with some of the medical barriers to The Big O, try these expert suggestions for maximizing your pleasure and having an orgasm every time, or at least most of the time. Female sex * Psychological Let's face it. Sisters grow up with a nasty grab bag of messages about sex. "Nice girls don't do it unless they're with Prince Charming." "Take care of his needs and forget yours." "Don't let him get any, or he'll drop you." Even when a sister feels comfortable having an orgasm from whatever stimulation rocks her world, distracting thoughts can interfere with the orgasmic process at hand. "Some women feel they are taking too long, or they worry about how their bodies look during lovemaking sessions," explains Grant. * Lack of communication Sometimes sisters simply don't tell their sexual partners what they need to get their groove on. Female sex It is possible, with some women, to have different qualities and kinds of orgasms from vaginal, clitoral, anal, and even breast stimulation...but with other women, those kinds of orgasms are all pretty much the same. But the G-Spot orgasm not only feels different; it also causes her body to react in a different way. First, it often causes a "push out" orgasm. The area around, or "above" (farther inside, that is) your fingers seems to swell up or to contract toward the opening of her vagina. If you find the right combination of pushing back when this happens, and slacking off to let it push out, you can cause (in perhaps half of the women) her orgasm to continue happening, long after normal ones would have subsided.